Mother’s Day

I served in the food industry for years before joining AMTCT. When it comes to festive seasons, be it religion related or relationship related, the restaurants are packed with people. Some tables are full of laughter. Some were just “being there” because it is expected by society.

I have never celebrated Mother’s Day or Father’s Day. After I came to understand that these are all man-made social norm that is further promoted and made important by advertisements, I don’t even celebrate my own birthday.


Once I told my mother, “Mom, I will not celebrate Mother’s Day for you.”. My mother looked at me, surprised why her well-behaved daughter would say something like that. I put my arm around her shoulder and told her “Everyday is mother’s day.Not just that particular day of the year.”. You can imagine how she felt.

What is the point of making our parents (or our loved ones) happy on certain occasion, while the remaining 354 days we allow them to be angry, worry, or fear for us? Love and care among people is something natural. It doesn’t need a “Day” or a “Reason” to do so. My mentor always said, “Do not give reason. Just do it!”

What is the point of joining “feed the poor” charity drive by certain organisations, while we ignore them on other days when we walk past them on the street?

What is the point of buying gifts for our spouse, while we cannot even hug them and give them a kiss when we leave home for work?

What is the point of visiting our friends when they are sick in hospital, while we cannot even give them a call and say hi every now and then?


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Dr. Rebecca Then is a certified Reiki Master under the Usui Shiki Ryoho Reiki Natural System of Healing, Japan, a certified trainer for e-Fusion Natural Healing System, co-founder of Energy FengShui and a clinical hypnotherapist. Since discovering the natural modality towards physical and emotional wellness from various schools in 2005, she had devoted her time and knowledge providing natural therapy to the ill and needy. Over the years she had helped countless people who had been suffering from all types of illnesses from stress disorder to cancer, alleviating their stress, pain and discomfort through energy healing and hypnotherapy.

She is also an active humanitarian worker, actively in organizing aids to the underprivileged and free natural healing therapy sessions throughout Malaysia. She frequently conducts charity workshops in Malaysia and Thailand, where all the profit from theses workshops are being donated to the local charity organizations.
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    22 2 years ago

    Profound and puts things in perspective. Our lives have been controlled by our need to be identified with things that ultimately does not mean anything. We are all asleep. Wake up and “Just do it”!

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